BEAUTIFUL NONSENSE!!!!

      Life of an Abuja girl(Tega)

      WHAT IF SHE IS THE ONE
I was having a drink with my friends in a lounge one night when I overhead a discussion by some guys in the next table. They were four of them and they were really good looking..They were talking about girls obviously 'cause their expressions gave them away. They were talking about a friend of theirs who was seeing a girl who in their opinion was beneath him. They were wondering why Jude,that appeared to be the friend in question's name,should be hobnobing with a girl like that. It was totally beyond their understanding why a guy as good looking as Jude should settle for a girl without class.

The first guy said there is absolutely no way in the world he can have a thing with a girl that isn't beautiful,sexy, classy,exciting and fun. As far as he was concerned,it's only a guy without game that can ask a drab and classless girl out. What possibly can a simple girl offer him, he wondered. What fun can she bring to his life? Why should he leave the abundance of hot and sexy girls and date the kind of girl that Jude is with? When I say guys are clueless,I get looked at like I'm insane. Isn't this a clear example of my observation?????

I am all for a guy dating a beautiful, hot,sexy and exciting girl..If u see a girl with all these qualities,by all means go for her. We all know that guys are moved by what they see and controlled by what they touch. Eighty five percent of guys make a move on a girl because they find her either sexually attractive or physically attractive..A guy makes his assessment on a girl most times,based on her physicality, and he makes advances on her based solely on that..Since this is the premise,why then do guys complain about their relationship never working??Why then do they complain about walking in and out of relationships faster than it takes them to say Jack Daniels???

Guys are clueless..yes I said it..guys are absolutely,completely and totally clueless, vain and shallow. You date a girl because she's hot. You date a girl because you want to show her off to your friends and have their jaws drop from her absolute gorgeousness..You want to date a girl that is sexy and classy..You ignore the fact that that absolutely scorching girl is the one that might burn every semblance of sanity in your life..That sexy girl that could bring so much mess into your life and drive you to the point were you begin to toy with the idea of strangling yourself with your shoe lace.. Yes,that  beautiful,sexy,hot and classy girl might turn your whole world inside out.

What if that unbeautiful,unsexy,unhot,
Unclassy girl is the one designed to bring you satisfaction and joy like you have never known before. What if she is the one that would make your life beautiful and complete you? You refuse to give her a chance because you think she isn't worth it? You refuse to give her even the slightest shot because your shallowness overrides your sense of a decent judgment. If only those guys at the table across from me had the faintest idea how ridiculously lame their theory is,maybe perhaps they would have switched to a safer topic like who Chelsea would demolish next in the EPL.

As a guy,you need to look beyond the physicality of a girl. You need a girl with substance not just a girl with a pretty face and a hot body..Don't get blinded and side tracked by what you think you want so much that what you really need walks right in front of you and you don't even see it. You have to adopt a new attitude in your search for your soul mate..You have to open your eyes and make a choice like a man not a hormone crazed teenager..

PS:If your soulmate ends up being a beautiful,hot,sexy and classy girl with substance and a good attitude like me,then you are one hell of a lucky brother..#wink#

Xoxo
The Tega series in fast coming to an end :-( sulking....